Betrayal Shattered Your Trust. Most of My Clients Rebuild It—Stronger.
“I thought the affair meant we were broken beyond repair. David helped us see it was a symptom of something we could rebuild - stronger than before.”
Couples Therapy in Louisville, Colorado
Weekly sessions or intensive formats—we'll find what fits.
Rebuild trust, repair connection, and create a new relational structure that actually works, even after betrayal. This is highly effective couples therapy for relationships impacted by infidelity, secrecy, emotional betrayal, or profound disconnection, offered in weekly or 30-day formats for couples who need focused, expert support now.
When Betrayal Ruptures the System
Something sacred has been fractured.
You may be oscillating between rage and numbness or hope and despair. That doesn’t mean you’re doing this wrong — it means the ground beneath your relationship has shifted.
Right now, you’re living in the space between rupture and repair.
Friends have opinions. Family has advice. Meanwhile, you’re trying to navigate each day. One of you might be drowning in shame or fear, perhaps the other suffocating in pain, anger, or disbelief, and you’re both maybe unsure whether repair is possible…
When betrayal enters a relationship, therapy that just helps you feel better isn’t enough. Feeling better is great — but rearranging furniture doesn’t fix a basement’s cracks.
Sometimes, what’s needed isn’t more tips and tricks — it’s a new foundation built with connected experiences.
Are You Struggling in Your Relationship?
Relationships can be incredibly rewarding, but they also come with challenges. For many couples, certain issues can feel overwhelming and difficult to navigate without support.
✓ Broken Trust
✓ Communication Breakdowns
✓ Loss of Intimacy
✓ Unresolved Content
✓ Emotional Disconnection
Common Challenges Couples Face
These challenges are common, but they don’t have to define your relationship. With expert facilitation, couples can rediscover trust, rebuild connection, and create a stronger, healthier partnership.
There’s Hope for Change.
A Different Approach to Affair Recovery & Betrayal Repair
I’ve heard the betrayed partner's intrusive thoughts that won't stop. I’ve witnessed the betraying partner's ever-present shame. I've sat with couples as they've done the methodical work of learning about the other’s pain, and I’ve had the honor to witness the surprising moments when hope breaks through.
After years as a clinician and countless hours with couples in crisis, I've learned this: Betrayal isn't the end of your story. It's a brutal chapter that often leads to a more authentic relationship—if you're willing to do the deep work, not just the surface repairs.
Most couples counseling focuses on tips and tricks, on communicating “better,” or on endlessly processing emotions. But betrayal isn’t just a communication problem; it’s a systemic one.
During our sessions, I hope you will:
Feel fully heard in all of your suffering
Grasp how betrayal was able to visit
Re-author your relationship’s story so there is space for honesty and connection to thrive
Together, rebuild a foundation that is custom-made for each of you and your relationship
I work with
Relationships visited by infidelity
Couples stuck in cycles of blame, shutdown, or emotional distance
Couples yearning for something new to blossom
Transformational change over traditional marriage counseling is
Guided, thoughtful human co-exploration over coaching
Sustainable, lasting change over a quick fix
A curated experience designed with your unique humanity in mind
I offer a variety of weekly and intensive style therapy sessions for couples:
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My work with couples is grounded in Narrative Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and family systems approaches.
Rather than focusing only on behaviors or communication skills, we look at the relational system you’re part of — the rules, roles, and protective patterns that shape how you relate.
This isn’t about fixing one person. It’s about creating conditions where both partners can feel seen, heard, and more connected to themselves and each other.
Together, we work to:
Understand recurring relational patterns
Explore emotional and attachment dynamics
Create space for honest, safer conversations
Support changes that feel authentic and sustainable
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Where change happens in days, not years. Transform your relationship through a 30-day couples therapy intensive designed for real, lasting change, not surface fixes or false promises. This work is for couples and families who already understand their patterns… and know that understanding alone isn’t changing them.
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Rebuild trust, repair connection, and create a new relational structure that actually works, even after betrayal. This is intensive couples therapy for relationships impacted by infidelity, secrecy, emotional betrayal, or profound disconnection offered in weekly or 30-day formats for couples who need focused, expert support now.
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Thoughtful, kink-affirming therapy for individuals, couples, and relationships navigating desire, power, intimacy, and connection, without shame or explanation required. If you’re looking for a therapist in Boulder who can meet you where you are, without pathologizing your sexuality or asking you to educate them, you’re in the right place.
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If you’re exploring opening your relationship, CNM, polyamory, and want a therapist who can hold complexity without judgment or pathology — you’re in the right place. I offer poly-affirming therapy in Boulder for couples, individuals, and polycules navigating relational possibilities.
Have a question?
Take the First Step Towards Repair
Before beginning any work, let’s discuss whether my approach aligns with your goals and discuss which format best serves your relationship: weekly or a 30-day intensive. Let’s start the conversation today and explore a new path forward.