Polyamory & Non-Monogamy Therapy in Boulder:
Thoughtful, affirming therapy for relationships navigating non-monogamy, polyamory, and relationship expansion.

If you’re exploring non-monogamy, polyamory, or opening your relationship, and want a therapist who can hold complexity without judgment, pathologizing, or scripts — you’re in the right place.

I offer poly-affirming therapy in Boulder for couples, individuals, and constellations navigating desire, boundaries, trust, and relational change.

When Your Relationship Structure Is Changing

Many people seeking non-monogamy or polyamory therapy already know what they’re curious about.

What’s harder is knowing how to talk about it safely, honestly, and without destabilizing what matters most.

You may be navigating:

  • Conversations about opening your relationship

  • Differing desires or readiness between partners

  • Jealousy, compersion, or fear you don’t know how to name

  • Re-negotiating agreements, boundaries, or hierarchy

  • The emotional impact of past betrayal or rupture

  • Identity shifts around love, sex, or partnership

Non-monogamy doesn’t create problems — unclear language, unspoken fear, and inherited scripts do.

A Different Approach to Non-Monogamy Therapy

My work is grounded in Narrative Therapy, systems thinking, and emotionally focused approaches, not prescriptive models of how relationships should look.

This is not about:

  • Convincing you to open (or close) your relationship

  • Pushing you toward polyamory or monogamy

  • Handing you a rulebook or identity label

Instead, we focus on:

  • Clarifying desire before acting on it

  • Creating language that reflects your lived experience

  • Exploring how love and sex function differently — and together

  • Supporting sovereignty, consent, and relational integrity

  • Understanding how the whole system is affected, not just one partner

The goal isn’t to move you along a spectrum. It’s to help you understand yourselves and each other more clearly.

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Is this for you?

This work is often a good fit if you:

  • Identify as polyamorous, non-monogamous, or relationally curious

  • Are opening a relationship and want support doing it consciously

  • Want a poly-affirming therapist in Boulder who understands nuance

  • Need a space where kink, ENM, or alternative structures don’t require explanation

  • Value honesty over reassurance and clarity over quick answers

If you’re looking for permission, validation, or a predefined path — this likely isn’t the right space.

If you’re looking for thoughtful, grounded support while navigating real complexity, we should talk.

  • Location: Boulder, Colorado (virtual options available)

  • Format: Individual and relationship sessions

  • Payment: Private pay

  • Insurance: Superbills available for out-of-network reimbursement

We’ll start with a free, fit-focused consultation to see whether this work aligns with what you’re navigating.

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