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Poly & CNM-affirming · Couples, individuals & polycules · Louisville, CO

Poly and CNM therapy in Louisville, CO

Affirming therapy for relationships navigating non-monogamy or polyamory.

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If you're exploring opening your relationship, CNM, or polyamory and want a therapist who can hold complexity without judgment or pathology — you're in the right place. I offer poly-affirming therapy in Boulder County for couples, individuals, and polycules navigating relational possibilities.

You don't need fixing

You already know what you want.

What's harder is finding someone you don't have to explain yourself to. Someone who won't treat your relationship structure as the problem. Someone who can hold all of it — the longing, the fear, the joy, the grief — without flinching.

Maybe you're navigating:

  • How to open a conversation about opening up.
  • Different desires, different timelines.
  • Jealousy that doesn't have a name yet.
  • Compersion that surprised you.
  • Agreements that need renegotiating.
  • A rupture you're not sure how to repair.
  • Questions about identity, love, sex, partnership — all of it shifting at once.
  • A misunderstanding, between you and your partner(s), of the language around openness and possibility.

These aren't signs something is wrong. They're signs you're paying attention.

Non-monogamy doesn't create problems. Silence does. Fear does. The inherited scripts about how love is "supposed" to work — those create problems.

You don't need fixing. You need to be met. Fully. Without flinching.

A different approach to non-monogamy therapy

My work is grounded in Narrative Therapy, systems thinking, and emotionally focused approaches — not prescriptive models of how relationships should look.

This is not about

  • Convincing you to open (or close) your relationship
  • Pushing you toward polyamory or monogamy
  • Handing you a rulebook or identity label

Instead, we focus on

  • Clarifying desire before acting on it
  • Creating language that reflects your lived experience
  • Exploring how love and sex function differently — and together
  • Supporting sovereignty, consent, and relational integrity
  • Understanding how the whole system is affected, not just one partner

The goal isn't to move you along a spectrum. It's to help you understand yourselves and each other more clearly.

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Is this for you?

This work is often a good fit if you:

  • Identify as polyamorous, non-monogamous, or relationally curious
  • Are opening a relationship and want support doing it consciously
  • Want a poly-affirming therapist in Louisville or Boulder County who understands nuance
  • Need a space where kink, ENM, or alternative structures don't require explanation
  • Value honesty over reassurance and clarity over quick answers

If you're looking for permission or a predefined path, this likely isn't the right space.

If you're looking for thoughtful, grounded support while navigating real complexity, we should talk.

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Session format & practical details

Location
Louisville, CO (virtual options available)
Format
Individual and relationship sessions
Payment
Private pay
Insurance
Superbills available for out-of-network reimbursement

We'll start with a free, fit-focused consultation to see whether this work aligns with what you're navigating.

People Not Problems · Louisville, CO · Call or text 303.335.0430