New Territory — A Couples Therapy Intensive in Louisville, CO
Where change happens in days, not years.
Transform your relationship through an immersive couples therapy intensive built for real, lasting change, not surface fixes or false promises. This work is for couples and families who already understand their patterns and know that understanding alone isn't changing them.
When Understanding isn’t Enough
You’ve read the books.
You’ve tried other therapy.
You can explain exactly how the fight will unfold before it even starts.
But knowing the pattern hasn’t changed it.
That’s because most therapy asks you to transform your relationship in 50-minute increments, while continuing to live the next week inside the very system that needs to change.
Weekly therapy when you're really stuck can feel like spinning your wheels for 50 minutes, then coming back a week later to try again. Still stuck in the same snowbank.
An intensive gives you the space to try something different — to rock gently instead of gunning it, or turn the wheel in a direction that seems counterintuitive but might give you traction. Suddenly, you're moving again, with ease.
Why Intensives Work
When you’re learning to ride a bike, you don’t practice for ten minutes once a week.
You immerse yourself — until balance becomes felt.
Relationship transformation works the same way.
Across one immersive weekend, we create intentional space for genuine exploration — space that allows new experiences, not just new insights.
I don’t promise to save your relationship. I do promise to expertly sit with you, fully present, across one immersive weekend. Let’s see what’s actually happening, and facilitate experiences that allow real, lasting change.
Explore whether an intensive is the right fit for you, or if weekly sessions are a better fit.
New Territory is one immersive weekend, curated to the two of you and to your schedules. You choose the days, I hold the space, and the work stays whole from start to finish.
We design this together.
The Structure
Preparation
Before any commitment, we meet for a full 90 minutes at no charge and begin mapping the invisible rules, roles, and dynamics shaping your relationship.
The Intensive
This is where the deep work happens — experiential, relational, and systemic.
Integration
A follow-up session a few weeks later to help anchor what’s shifted and support lasting change.
I work with a limited number of couples and families per quarter to nurture this work as it deserves.
How the 30-Day Intensive Works
Is this for you?
This work tends to resonate if you’re in a relationship where:
You feel unheard or your partner tells you they feel unheard
You desire intimacy, but it plays hide and seek
You have things, but trouble focusing on your actual desires
You feel stuck in patterns that once protected you, and the relationship now feels suffocating
You may be navigating:
The aftermath of betrayal, unsure whether trust can be rebuilt
Conversations you’ve avoided for years about desire, identity, or opening your relationship
A growing distance — no amount of date nights can bridge
One partner who thinks therapy is bullshit, but knows something has to change
Two No-Cost Steps Before You Commit
You shouldn't have to commit to deep work with someone you've barely met. The first two steps cost nothing and exist so you can feel whether this is right before any money or promise changes hands.
A free 30-minute consultation. A short conversation, by phone or video. You tell me what's happening, I tell you honestly whether an intensive is the right shape for it, and we both feel out the fit. No pressure, no pitch.
A free 90-minute first meeting. If the consult feels right, we sit down together for a full 90 minutes, still at no charge. This isn't a sales call, it's real work. We begin mapping what's actually happening between you, and you get a true taste of how I work before you decide anything.
Only after those two steps do you choose whether to step into the weekend itself.
Practical Details
Investment — $11,000 for the full intensive
One immersive weekend of deep, experiential, systemic work, plus a two-hour consolidation session a few weeks later to anchor what's shifted. Your free consultation and free first meeting come before any of it, so you'll know exactly what you're stepping into before a dollar changes hands. Private pay, superbill available on request.
Because staying stuck is costly too, just in a slower currency.
*I only provide intensives for up to three couples or families per month in order to give you the appropriate attention you deserve.
Not Sure Which Format is Right?
Intensives are truly transformational for many couples — and some couples benefit most from weekly meetings. We’ll explore which option is best for you in a free, fit-focused consultation.