Couples Therapy Intensives:
Where Change Happens in Days, Not Years

Transform your relationship through a 30-day couples therapy intensive designed for real, lasting change — not surface fixes or false promises. This work is for couples and families who already understand their patterns… and know that understanding alone isn’t changing them.

When Understanding isn’t enough

You’ve read the books.

You’ve done the therapy.

You can explain exactly how the fight will unfold before it even starts.

But knowing the pattern hasn’t changed it.

That’s because most therapy asks you to transform your relationship in 50-minute increments, while continuing to live inside the very system that needs to change.

It’s like trying to rebuild a plane while flying it.

Sometimes, what your relationship needs isn’t more time — it’s a different container.

Why Intensives Work

A young couple riding a bicycle together in a park during daytime, with the man pedaling and the woman sitting behind him, both smiling and enjoying the moment, with trees and sunlight in the background.

When you’re learning to ride a bike, you don’t practice for ten minutes once a week.

You immerse yourself — until balance becomes felt.

Relationship transformation works the same way.

Over 30 days, we create sustained space for genuine exploration — space that allows new experiences, not just new insights.

I don’t promise to save your relationship. I do promise to sit with you for about 18 clinical hours. Let’s see what’s actually happening, and facilitate experiences that allow real shifts.

Sometimes it changes everything. Sometimes it clarifies what needs to change. Always, it’s honest.

Explore whether an intensive is the right fit for you, or if weekly sessions are a better fit.

Each intensive is customized around your life, your capacity, and your relationship.

Over 30 days, we meet for about 18 total hours, structured in a way that serves your life — whether that looks like:

  • Several extended days

  • A few long weekends

  • Or multiple evening sessions

We design this together.

The Structure

Preparation (75 minutes)
We map the invisible rules, roles, and dynamics shaping your relationship.

The Intensive (15 clinical hours)
This is where the deep work happens — experiential, relational, and systemic.

Integration (75 minutes)
A follow-up session a few weeks later to help anchor what’s shifted and support lasting change.

I work with a limited number of couples and families per quarter to nurture this work as it deserves.

How the 30-Day Intensive Works

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Is this for you?

This work tends to resonate if you’re in a relationship where:

  • You feel unheard or your partner tells you they feel unheard

  • You desire intimacy, but it plays hide and seek

  • You have things, but trouble focusing on your actual desires

  • You feel stuck in patterns that once protected you, and the relationship now feels suffocating

You may be navigating:

  • The aftermath of betrayal, unsure whether trust can be rebuilt

  • Conversations you’ve avoided for years about desire, identity, or opening your relationship

  • A growing distance no amount of date nights can bridge

  • One partner who thinks therapy is bullshit, but knows something has to change

Practical Details

Investment: $5,500

Payment: Private pay

You’re investing in focused, highly effective care with a clinician specifically trained in relationship therapy.

Because staying stuck is expensive — just in quieter ways.

*I only provide intensives for up to three couples or families per quarter in order to give you the appropriate attention you deserve.

Not Sure Which Format Is Right?

30-day intensives are truly transformational for many couples — some couples benefit from weekly appointments.

We’ll explore which option is better for you together in a free, fit-focused consultation.